Comments on: The Boy

By: Gavin van Dam

Gavin van Dam — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 12:38:15 +0000

FACEBOOK.. love it or curse it :( I have found and lost far too many friends! Thanks B, for the heart felt words!

By: Sonya

Sonya — Fri, 03 Oct 2008 05:45:35 +0000

I'm sorry to hear that. I also had"A Boy" who turned out like that too. I knew he was always a little on the outside but I never knew by how much and when I did found out it was a total shock to me. It's so odd how life turns out sometimes. Sonyas last blog post... Blogging Blues

By: Penny

Penny — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 14:22:17 +0000

Not to be funny during a serious post but I need to comment on that picture! LOVE IT! You should wear your hair like that now ;) I’d curl it for you.

P.S. And you know I was very sad to hear about your friend. It’s not easy *HUG*

By: Amber

Amber — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 04:43:13 +0000

Wow - I'm sorry to hear. Very tough news to deal with for sure. Ambers last blog post... OUCH!

By: AndiMAC

AndiMAC — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 02:01:00 +0000

Its funny, I was just looking up an ex on Facebook. We were both pretty young (I was 21 and he was 18) We were together like 3 years but we never really broke up. We just kind of drifted apart. I know he is married with kids now but I just wanted to see how he is doing I guess to get some sort of closure. AndiMACs last blog post... A little Sarah on Sunday

By: Kathy

Kathy — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 18:30:25 +0000

Wow, poor ****. He was in some of my classes at UCCB and we used to chit chat. He was the same ole ****. I always thought he was so intelligent and would go places. BUT, at the same time, I can almost picture him as the big [drug] dealer on campus in his leather jacket and f**k the establishment attitude. Something about him makes me think he would maybe like the glamour of it all, for lack of a better word. I remember Martin used to rake in the dough and believe it or not there is a hierarchy in that biz and some in it would be considered prestigious individuals and admired by their peers. He might have been enticed by the value people placed on him and the perks, money etc.. Still tho, poor ****!!

By: DutchBitch

DutchBitch — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 18:27:26 +0000

Oh yeah, those things are shockers to find out right? I found out something similar about one of my best g/f's in school... I was devastated at how different lives can run. DutchBitchs last blog post... Can I just say?

By: Bluefish

Bluefish — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 17:38:19 +0000

I’m sorry to hear the bad news. I had my own story about my first love, which you read a bit of it in my older post.

It is difficult to digest all these information at once, but I hope you can finally have a proper closure. If that’s what you’re looking for.

Take care.

By: stephanie

stephanie — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 16:09:24 +0000

OMG! i was wondering if you would blog about “the boy” and when you made the comment on facebook you had gotten bad news i was like it couldnt be someone i knew. Well i didnt really know “the boy” but the picture you posted i have the exact one and remember the day of your prom.

It’s sad to know where people end up in life especially since you had such a connection with him years back. Just like you i wouldnt of thought that he would end up like this in life.

I don’t have the words to really console you about this since id dint know him well but it is def a shock to hear about someone associated with family. Your parents especially might be shocked to hear such news, i dunno if Brian is.

I guess i’ll stop here…just making sure that you just remember the boy you hung out with, the boy you “loved” and had feeling for and put the news you heard behind you and remember the good things of that person.